Okay, maybe you’re not so picky about what kind of girl you want.
Maybe you just miss the company of females in general and want to
love as many women as possible before you die. Nothing wrong with
that, it worked for Warren Beatty. On the other hand, maybe you
just want to meet a greater population of women so you can be sure
of what you really want in a long-term relationship. This is
smart, because often times we misdiagnose ourselves and don’t know
what we really want until we’re looking at her right in the face.
Now is not the time to think of love or other complications. Now
is the time to meet women, women, more women and a few hot girls
along the way!
What can you do to attract more girls? Here are some tips that
may help you, and believe it or not, most of these “tricks” are
non-verbal cues. It should go without saying that in order to
appeal to women on a purely physical level, you must take care of
yourself. Shower, apply good-smelling products and dress like
you’re a movie star. You’re already looking more attractive than
those dirty cowboys who just barely put on a shirt and pants
before heading out the door.
Now that you’re at least moderately attractive in form (and
already in advantage if you look young and successful) it’s time
to focus on the most important dynamic in flirting: eye contact.
Women always notice a man’s eyes, as these are a window to the
soul, and one of the best tools you will ever have in your sexual
repertoire. Do not be afraid of eye contact. As soon as you
enter a room, make eye contact with all of the girls you think are
cute. Don’t hesitate or seem only half-interested. Look into her
eyes—don’t stare at her breasts or legs. You’re not ordering
chicken, dude! You’re trying to make an emotional connection.
Now you do have to walk a fine line in between happy go lucky fool
and leering psychopath. You want to smile in the spirit of
interest and friendliness. Don’t alarm the poor girl, but try and
keep a sexy, cool stare. You’re communicating thoughts in this
time. You’re communicating that you find her attractive and that
you’re a hot guy interested in a hot girl. What’s great about
keeping eye contact is that you will know immediately if there is
some compatibility in the air. An interested woman will return
your eye contact, perhaps turning away at first, but then
returning to your glance.
Eye contact is the most important part of flirting, but it’s by no
means the last step. Most women will not be aggressive and walk
right up to you just because she finds you attractive. (Women are
browbeaten by society to be ladylike) You have to approach her
and convey confidence in the way you walk and talk. Even if you
can’t feign Vin Diesel-like machismo, she will still be impressed
that you took a chance and approached her. Stay observant and
look for any signs of preening (like touching her hair or
adjusting her clothes) that indicate she’s still interested.
Don’t get so carried away in playing the role of James Bond that
you forget to come across as a friendly and non-threatening guy.
Women like confidence but not senseless aggression. The most
important lesson to learn here is to always go towards what you
want, not recoil. Successful men attract women because they show
interest in body language and in direct communication. Timid men
avoid conversation and hide from any undue attention. Is it any
surprise these are the kind of guys who have trouble meeting
women? Not you though…now you know how to attract all sorts of
women and filter through them like the superstar you are. Have
fun with that, yeah?
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