Do Girls Really Fall Over Themselves For Men With A Great Physique?

No! The answer is No! For all of you guys grunting, and seating, lifting weights at the gym – I have news for you. The only people you are impressing are the other guys in the gym and yourself. I don’t know a single woman who is attracted to a muscle-bound man.

This may seem strange to you men. You think that a great physique is the sign of a healthy body and vitality, but it’s not true. For many women, a man with a hot body is considered vain, and vaguely homosexual. Take a look around you – every homosexual man I know takes great care of himself, goes to the gym regularly, and has impeccable grooming. Heck, they even smell good.

There is also a mentality that men who spend that much time working on their bodies are covering up for other “issues”. Any way you look at it, a guy with a great body doesn’t have a great reputation.

What women do like, however, are men who are simply fit. A guy who runs because he loves it, or a guy who is tan and fit because he swims regularly are far more attractive than a studly weightlifter.

Besides all that, however, a woman will fall for a personality, a smile, sweet eyes, or a loving personality far sooner than they will fall for bulging muscles. Think of all the couples you know – famous or otherwise – where the man is odd-looking, not in great shape, or seemingly unattractive – and the woman is stunning. Rocker Ric Ocasek and supermodel Paulina Porizkova – he’s almost scary looking, and she is incredibly beautiful with a stunning body.

So, the answer is no, women do not fall for guys because of their body. The time you spend in the gym, you would be better spending working on your conversation skills, picking out better looking clothing, or brushing your hair. Don’t worry about your muscles, worry about your brains, your spirit, your soul, and your sincerity.